机会总是给有准备的人的。
这是一句老话，可是许多人还是抱怨没有抓到机会。我也一样。

90年代中期，证券业的IT市场我没有抓住；从国外回来后，股票牛市我没有抓住。这其中非常重要的一个因素就是，我总想做一番事业，好像只有在软件上的事业才算事业。

Back to China from Vancouver

That was a beautiful Wendesday afternoon in August. Like workday before, I drove my car to home from my office where I had worked for 4 years as a senior software engineer and team lead. When I got home, I didn't find my wife and two kids. A slip on the table in the kitchen said:
I went back to China with two kids. I missed my parents and family in China. I would come back here.

My god. My wife, with my daughter and son, went back to China without telling me! That stunned me.

My wife was a woman who hate staying at home as a housewife. She wanted to work as a professional. Actually, She had got a good education in China. After we moved to Canada, her education and experience in business management was not enough to get her a job. Especially after the birth of my son one years ago, she worried her career much badly.

Ok. That's what happened in August of 2004. Now I'm in China. After working for 5 years in US and Canada, I came back to China.